about love
to honest, i don't think i have already understood what a love is, and just last semester, i experienced a failure in love. it really hurt me, and because of that, i didn't study well untill the final examination came. fortunately, i pasted the exam and got a not so bad score.
and now, thinking of it again, i think i have known something about the love. in my opinion, love never just happen to all of us, love needs time, just like a tree growing slowly form the seed in the ground to the big one. and we also need time to deepen our affection, to know each other's differences, to share one other's happiness and sorrows. love also needs some free time, some personal time. if you tried so hard, you may get the last thing you expected. as a failure, i don't want to talk much about my love. but after that, i think i become more mature, because i have learnt the ability to let her go.
when i saw this topic, i really appreciate the girl who can love those who she likes, hate those who she dislikes. i think we should sometimes follow our heart, listen to our heart, and feel our heart. and now, i have recovered but i am not sure whether or not i can fall in love with someone in university. and i know, it depends to the god. but i don't think i can be ready now. sometimes it is hard to make sure about something. just as one of my friends who broke with his girlfriend at the same month as mine, and at that time he told me that he would never love another girl any more, but now, just few days before, he told me that he had a girlfriend. so love is a very strange thing, it is a feeling i think.
i don't think that there is someone who can define what love is, because love can be many things to many people, different persons have got different ideas about love. but all of them, one thing is similar, that is , the love must be a good one for them which can help them out of trouble, can let them feel comfortable, can make them happy!
my friends, if you are still thinking whether you should love her or him or not, please just follow your heart, sometimes, we do need to listen to our heart! my best wishes to all of you,my friends!